This is a story I heard recently from a Guru. ‘Sankaran Pillai’ (You may have guessed who the guru is, if not let me not disclose it right now) once went to a bar. He was drinking happily with his friends round after round. The clock stuck 8 and Sankaran suddenly went rigid. He put down his glass and headed home. His friends mocked him saying “Sankaran! Are you the man in your house or a mouse ?!”. Sankaran replied, “Hey, I’m the man in my house. If I’m a mouse my wife would be afraid of me” and left hurriedly.
His wife was waiting at the doorsteps. She was quite angry that Sankaran hadn’t turned up at house even though she had asked him to be home at 8 no matter what. Now, Sankaran showed up at the entrance and the wife tried to pounce on him. He jumped over her and went inside the house. The wife ran him behind him chasing him wildly. Sankaran ran around in the house, went to the bedroom and hid himself under the cot. His wife came into the bedroom and eventually located him. But being a huge woman she couldn’t reach him under the cot. She told, “Are you the man in the house or a mouse? Come out right now”. Sankaran Pillai said, “Yes, I’m the man in this house and I can be wherever I want to be”. Moral of the story is, even though Sankaran couldn’t have been in any other place at that moment in his house, he claims to be a free man being where he wants to be; Similarly we, inflicted by our fears and prejudices claim to be free souls, though we are in fact bound by those thoughts. :-). It made perfect sense to me. Think about all your unnecessary habits, be it smoking, drinking, or just a plain harmless habit such as going to the restroom with a book or laptop in hand. Some food for thought, ain’t it?